البعض يمتلكون مهارات عقليه فذه وقد يوصفون بالعباقره والذكاء الحاد ‘ لاكنهم يفتقرون الي الذكاء الاجتماعي والمهارات الاجتماعيه والقدره علي الانخراط مع الآخرين وأبداء الرأي وحسن التصرف..
لاكن هذه مهارات مكتسبه ومن السهل تعلمها والتدرب عليها فأي أنسان بأمكانه ان يكون إجتماعيا ومحبوبا فبط يحتاج الي كسر الخوف والخجل والتوقف عن تفكيره في رده فعل الاخرين ورأيهم في وفي تصرفاته..
ونستعرض بعض النقاط التي سوف تساعدك في حل امور كثيره
@. ليس كل الكلام مقبول وليس كثره الكلام دليل علي قوه العلامات
@ تجنب الحديث عن النفس وما تخفي من مشاعر لإن الناس لا تحب من يتكلم عن نفسه دائما لأنه قد يوصف بالغرور او عدم الثقه بالنفس
@ الإستماع قبل الكلام فهو فن من فنون الكلام ويجعل الشخص يعرف ما وراء الكلام وما المقصود من الحديث وما هي المشاعر التي يخفيها المتحدث ( الإنصات نصف الحكمه)
@ الابتعاد عن الكلام البذئ لانه يجعل الشخص موضع سخريه من الاخرين ويبعدك كل البعد عن الاخلاق ويستثير في نفوس الناس عدم الاطمئنان لك
@ الهدوء عند التحدث: الهدوء والصوت المنخفض يجعل آذان الآخرين تنصت للمتحدث.
@ عدم تقديم النصيحه لاحد إلي إذا طلبها.
@ الابتعاد عن تقليد حديث الآخرين لان التقليد (طمس للشخصيه) يجب ان يكون الشخص نفسه حتي وان كانت هناك بعض العيوب اتقبلها واتخلص منها شيئا فشيئا..
@ الابتعاد عن النميمه والغيبه . فيبين لنا رسولنا الكريم صلي الله عليه وسلم ان النميمه كانك تأكل لحم اخيك ميتا والعياذ بالله..
واخيرا اكتساب الثقه بالنفس.وهي شئ مكتسب وسنتحدث عنه مطولا في كتابات اخري والثقه تبدا بنظرتك لنفسك
( النظره التي تنظر لنفسك بها هي نفس النظره التي ينظر لك بها الأخرون)
اللهم علمنا ما ينفعنا وانفعنا بما علمتنا
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